Are you happy with your sex life?


63% of men wish they
were getting more.

Let's face it, we all think about sex. A lot. Whether you're not getting enough, not having enough fun with it, or just not feeling it, sex can and should be one of the best things about your relationships.

Gay, straight, single or seeing someone, sex is something worth getting right. After all, a great sex life is something we all want, right?

Well done, you.

Sounds like you've got everything under control, so just keep doing your thing. If anything changes, make sure you check out the advice via the links on the right.

You can always call us on 0300 100 1234 and take our Relationship Checker to see how things are going. Or why not check out some of the other areas we might be able to help you with here.

Common problems

The reality is most of us face sexual problems at some point, and it might not be something you fancy chatting to your mates about over a pint. Common problems range from physical issues like not getting it up, to more general stuff like not having as much sex as you want – or being unsure about trying new things.

Whatever the issue, there's almost always something you can do about it. Check out our tips here or give us a call on 0300 100 1234. Don't worry, we won't tell anyone.

You're not unique

We mean that in the nicest possible sense of course. You won't be the only person experiencing a sexual problem, so talk to someone. Chances are, it can be fixed.


Not getting enough?

Join the club! Our stats show that 63% of men wish they got more action. So stop beating yourself up and start enjoying what you
are getting.


Struggling to please your partner?

The best thing you can do is talk. That sounds like a cliché, but it's likely they know where you're going wrong – they'll probably tell you or show you if it means better sex.


Kick your bad habits.

Do you leave your phone on while you get busy, always go for the same position, or simply lie back and leave all the work to them?

Take a minute to think about your bedroom habits to change things up. Talk to your partner about it too – it might just lead to more fun.


Don't give up.

Sex can be good for everyone. Including you. Taking a few simple steps to improve your sex life might feel weird at first, but it's better than settling for average. Enjoy!


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Other helpful stuff

If there's anything still playing on your mind, why not call us for a completely confidential chat on 0300 100 1234 or use our free Live Chat service service. You can also find out about a one-off Relationship Check-up service available at your local Relate Centre, created with men in mind.